Looking back at my time at UNC, I wish I had listened to what GRACE(aka myself) wanted. My life got exponentially better once I started pursuing the things I loved and prioritized.
If I had any tips for you guys still in college this is what I’d say:
- Devote time to extracurriculars: 90% of my conversations with interviewers were about my extracurriculars. No kidding. Drop the organizations you’re not passionate about and put in your all into the ones you do love.
- Observe what you’re doing in your free time: What articles are you reading? What seminars/clubs do you like? Take note of these things. By recognizing what you enjoy doing you can start developing your passions.
- Have role models: Who do you admire? Research how these people achieved their success. This will give you an idea of how to start paving your own path to success!
- Cross off the activity you’re doing because you “have to”: For 3 years I did things I “had to” like working at a research lab and taking extremely difficult science classes. Later, I ended up taking extremely difficult economics classes but LOVED them! There’s a difference.
- Don’t be afraid to ask questions: You’re surrounded by an accessible network of intelligent students! If you see someone doing something incredible, ask them about it and try to learn a thing or two. Always develop yourself and your passions.
- Develop a relationship with your professors: You can get to know professors on a personal level through their office hours. Professors care about you, they aren’t just machines who teach and grade! Take advantage of that.
- Make time for your friends: Yes, your academics and extracurriculars are important, but your relationships are as well. If you’re not making time for your friends, then you need to work on your time-management skills, don’t take them out of your life. Their support and love will be needed when those tough times roll through.